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That is simply saying that some things might make an infant feel bad, however their caretakers might then compensate for that and make them feel better. That makes sense considering that young children can cry often. It also shows the importance of making the infant feel better, if it is just abused then it might not develop properly or with a strong sense of self or security. If a child has the proper confidence and mental stability then they are probably less likely to develop a mental disorder.
Finding the solution to ADHD seems to be very difficult if not impossible. I would argue that it is like trying to change who someone is. Those children exhibit those behaviors because that is what they want to do, they don't want to have a good attention because life is boring. Why would they want to be attentive to something boring or be calm when life is so much more exciting the other way? It is more than just something they "developed" or just an illness, it is how they feel they need to act and is how they experience and generate emotion for themselves. That is who they are, they probably can only function in that way because that is the best way for them. Life would probably be too boring for them the other way. You can't just say to them, your life is going to be boring now, stop acting out please.
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